Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Love is indeed a beautiful feeling...

Love is beautiful yet inspiring..we human needs love above all the material thing in life...Gentle, elegant, and radically inspiring, love presents a holistic, experiential meditative path that enables us to see beyond our preconceived notions of identity, spirituality, and humanity. 
A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him.

There are lots of way to let in the love and they are....

  1. Accept your past. If you’ve been hurt in the past, you really need to begin to cope with that feeling before you can love someone else. You may feel that things you did in the past will make you unlovable, or that you have too many problems to be lovable. Maybe you feel that because your past relationships failed, all others are doomed to fail as well. But this is not the case and you should never feel for a moment that what has happened to you before will keep you from being happy now. Accept the things that happened to you, forgive, and move on.
  2. Get rid of the list. You know the list: that compendium of requirements that a potential partner or friend must meet, kept in your head or even written down. Yeah, get rid of that. Recognize that by keeping such a list, you’re creating the person you want to be with, rather than meeting the person you’re meant to be with. Real people don’t fit in boxes. You can certainly keep in mind qualities that you want a person to have, but don’t require someone to meet all of them and make sure you’ve got your priorities in order.
  3.   Reconsider your priorities. If you’re putting a nice butt before a stable personality, you’re going to have a really tough time in relationships. Same goes for things like valuing friends who get you into the best clubs over friends who’ll hold your hair back while you puke. Take those items from your list (discussed above) and separate them out into wants vs needs. Then take a hard look at why you pri
    oritize the things you do.
  4.  Open yourself to new possibilities. Once you’ve given some hard thought to what really matters to you in your relationships, take another look at the people around you and the people that you meet every day. Maybe people you’d previously dismissed will suddenly seem okay. You’ll find...potential. And that’s all you need to start with. Potential may not feel like love at first sight, but it can grow into the most beautiful and stable love you’ve experienced.
  5. Love yourself. Before loving anyone else, you have to love yourself. This is important on so many levels. It will show you how to experience love, it will send a message to people you love that you are worth loving in return, and it will make you a better lover because you will not be hindered by self-doubt and confidence issues.
  6. Have something to offer others. When you go to start a relationship, be it romantic or platonic, you’ll want to be sure that you bring something to that relationship. Having nothing to offer will give you and probably the other person the sense that you are a leech. Work on giving as much as you take, in all your relationships, and you’ll be set for success.
  7. Be vulnerable. Unfortunately, loving someone means that they can hurt you. This is normal and okay (and almost inevitable). But if you want to have real love, you need to allow yourself to open with that person. Don’t keep secrets from them, don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t, but instead give them the opportunity to know the real you.
  8. Give it time. Don’t force love and don’t try to speed it up. This will only create false feelings which drain you emotionally and leave you feeling empty and unsatisfied. You can’t rush love. But believe that it will come because it most certainly will. You just have to find the right person.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

HHH CAMPING at Hofuf Canyon
























































We started from somewhere in Khobar and drove all the Way to Hofuf (100 km from Khobar thru Abqaiq Road)..kinda little drizzle on and off...to sum it up..weather was great for driving...we were riding as convoy.. like nobody left alone in the middle of nowhere....our car was driven by the sergey, sam next to him and I was at the backseat....








Entered the Canyon way thru dusty road off the highway...straight, left and the right ..


walla.. we are at the camp site...some of the people were already there and they got the best place to pitch in their tent ....we parked our car and got out .. searched for our place and pitched in our tent.



Little Blue and Red one is mine...It was not my fault.. the attendant told me that it can fit in 2 persons (wonder he was blind or I was invisible to him) he could not see a big man who can hardly fit in that small cage..anyway I crampedly manage to fit in my little tent.

Rehydration and other Running and Walking activity follows...we did like 4 km run/walk....

Back to Camp Area...camp fire, food...pringle song....lots of noises..hydration and then sleep....Wakey Wakey at 6 am and then a breakfast .. again the Canyon Trail.. well, some of the people got lost half way to the end of the cave/canyon...some followed the wrong trail ended up on the plateau with no roads...had to come down in a rock climbing style....

Exhausted, drank loads of liquid..mid-afternoon hit the road and then back to our home safe and sound.


Looking forward to another camp in 6 months...


Take Care


Zakir "Zack" Hossain













































Wednesday, December 8, 2010

God created Sex. Priest created Marriage.

When Adam and Eve sent by God to Earth, they were sent one at a time and were the only 2 humans in whole new world. They met, can't able to talk, coz they dont know each others language or dialect. Well, to cut short, at last they talked in sign language and loiter around thru the Forest and Rocks and Rivers, caressig Liong, Tiger and other animals, touching each other, no feeling while touching each other as if they are anti-magetic to each other. While cruising along the way, they saw a tree and fruit called APPLE. Well, they had no idea "what apple is" still they gone closer to that Apple tree and suddenly the SNAKE appears and said "Yo, what up" snake told them mildly....it said.."I was wondering about offering a dozens of Apple to both of you, well.. its not a simple Apple but a Legendary and Heaven Apple...(before send to earth God's counsel has briefed Adam and Eve about the Negativeness of the Apple) Adam being a male said to Snake, "No Way Buddy, we're not eating Apple, Watermelon can be better" snake said.."Hey, yo. c'mon..try one bite", "No Way" Adam resisted...Snake then charm its way to Eve who was waiting anxiously to Eat that forbidden fruit (well, she was a woman).. any how, snake convinced Eve to have bite and she did it..and then snake disappeared. Suddenly Even felt electric in her body and touched Adam, and then they had sex...Eve bear lots of children.. all left to their own fait and care. one of the boy who grew up in a astray atmosphere to be a priest and then he desided to take a stand in casual sex. He created a bond between Male and female before sex. Hence, so the Marriage were created.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Last Week

Last week was Turbulent, I was offloaded from the on-going project due to the butt-licking employee of a Hyderabd Origin, played the dirty politics on me, well this is the second time I was bumped off from somewhere due the guy from Hyderabad. Well, Hyderabad being a Good city with a people who play dirty politics. Eventually, as I was been kicked out but placed in a good department and working with top management. It was the mix week with sad starts and happy ending. Overall week ended up with good party and one of my friends house in ARAMCO. Met lots of girls and had fun, even met other people too (old friends)....Ramadan is going good. Still at work

Friday, August 20, 2010

Ramadan Weekend - 1

Well, weekend in Ramadan is like any other day. Same Fasting everyday. No parties and craziness. So, one month of soberness. Faith becomes more important above everything else. Ramadan is not all about fasting, we have to make sure that our neighbor does not starve nor they don't have Iftaar. We have to take care of them. We, going to Gym while fasting, challenging myself..its a race against me by me. Prayer is all about your likeness towards God. The prayer must be done in a exclusive Prayer hall, People says that God is everywhere, why the Prayer hall.. should not ask them why you do Dinner on the Dinner Table, it is only about eating why not sit on the Pavement out of your house or on the corridor of the Apartment.

Well, now I am going to Gym.. Catch ya later

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Yogin's Party

Well, its the Ramadan time when everything evil has to be shut out. In the pretext of doing that we sometimes shut out the good things coz we just shut it knowing a bad thing without seeing clearly . So, life is same as usual today. Last night was boring but suddenly it jazzed up with a impromptu (August 17, 2010) birthday party of our good friend Yogin (Indian Origin of South African Nationality) still fighting apartheid, it gets raged when he gets drunk...he is just Yogin.. well, we were in party,me, my russian friend Sergey and Yogin and Yogin's friend and a host of the party. We were only 4 of us.. had fun till 2 am in the morning...it was not the big party but how small it was, one thing is sure that "time goes out" it leaves a sweet memory....So, my Fasting is still going on, keeping the lord happy too...got new assignment next week and then work for the big guys by the end of the month...life was stuck but got streamlined now...going to gym now.. catch ya guys soon.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

People does not care for your loyalty

It seems its a big bad world where loyalty is of no use, you get fired in no time though you have performed excellently. I dunno why is this things goes on, the work or performance does not matter, it is a money or a favor, sometimes it is the money which cause the emotional debacle to human and sometimes it is favorism, the favorism is more deadly then the money part. I dont have any support nor am I get any favour coz I am a professional and work on. I am a hardworker but but not able to seek favor from big managers. I am stuck into a office political mess, being the first one to get rid off. The truth sayers get the hit first.
Above all the problems in life, I am still a very optimistic guy and I know that I will prevail over devils. Life is beautiful with a Catch